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Tuhun leitung khangto ah media huih in naakpin hong nawk suk hong nawk to a, sex lam nga vive video leh TV program tuamtuam te ah tampi I mumu hi. Nisim a I zat namtui (perfume) leh haza ( toothpaste) na ciang phatna (advertise) dingin kizang tamawk hi. Tua manin adiakin tuhun khangnote adingin ze-etna tuipi bang lian a, sex tawk kisai kithuhilhna maan a om kei leh hih ze-etna tuipi ah I kiat khit ding lauhuai hi.
Na nu leh pate tung panin sex tawh kisai genpihna na ngah ngei kei kha ding hi. Na lawmte tung pan hiam akl. magazine gina hetlo khawng panin thuhilhna manlo tampi hong kihilh ding a, ‘sex khawng bangma pi a ngaihsut ding hilo pi’ cih khawngin zolna hong om thei ding hi.
‘Pasal na hihna langsak ve’, ‘it takpi hi teh cih na lahna aive’, ‘ciinglo hi teh cih na prove nadingin hoih’ cih khawng, tua ciang ‘sex zatloh pen mibatlohna hi’ ,‘ki-it a kingai takpi I hih leh sex zat khawng bang phamawh se a hia?’ ci a ong nawk pawlpawl om ding hi.
Bek thamlo in, koppih ding zi/pasal neih masiah bel kikem siangtho ning na cihleh, ‘normal lo’ akl. ‘ki piangthak sak’ ‘ki Pasian thu um sak’ cih khawnga kona zong na lawhtak hi thei ding hi. Hiteng khempeuh pen taksang ding hilo a, a thupi in ngaihsut ding hilo hi. A thupi pen zaw in ahihleh - Pasian ading, na koppih ading leh nang adingin na kikep siangthona pen hizaw hi. ( huizz... intro sau ei )
ITNA LEH SEX
Tangval tampi in nungakte a khemna uh pen, “Kei nong it taktak leh kei adingin na kiphal kul…” cih hi. Hih pen nungak tampi in taksang in a sianthona uh na tanlawh khin uh a, poi mahmah hi.Sex zat ding lunggulhna lungsim pen pumpi ci leh sa ki-iplahna pana hong piang hi lel a, sauvei kimanglo in beipah hi. Itna maan in ahihleh kiten hun ngakzo a, zuau thu tawh luppih hong sawmlo ding hi. ‘I kiten dong ngak zo kei ning’ a cih leh a ngak nuamlo, ngakzawh a sawmlo cihna hizaw hi. Hibang a ama nopsak nadingin vatzat in hong zat sawmte pen bel pel zaw lecin na mailam ding hizaw hi.
‘Ki-itna – Kitenna - Sex’ cih pen tuni dongin Pasian deihdan hi lai a, I lehbulh khakloh ding thupi hi. Pasian deihdan I zuihna in nungzui nei a, tuate in – akip akho ki-itna leh kingaihna, lungdamna, kipahna leh thupha tampi ahi hi. A langkhat lamah, I lehbulh khak leh zong tua in nungzui mah na nei a, tuate in – kisikna, mindaina, lungkhamna leh thusia tampi ahi hi.
KOPPIH DING KA NEIH MASIAH BANG HANGIN KIKEM SIANGTHO DING KA HIAM???
1) Pasian deihna ahihmanin – Kitenna huang sung lo a sex zat pen Pasian deihna tawh kituaklo hi. ( Exo 2:14) Pasian in I suahtakna hong gak sak nop man hilo a, nung ciangin I nupa kikal anop zawk nading hi. Nungak tangval lai in sex ana zang ngiengei khinte in pen a kiten khit uh ciangin a koppihte uh muanlahna tawh kidim den ci uh hi.
2) Kisikna, minsiatna, lungkhamna leh thusia tampi tawh na kipelh theih nadingin - Kiginni zan a tomvei sung I nopsakna pen nipi khawvak(monday)ciangin pen I kisik mahmah na leh I lungkham kipatna hong suak thei hi. Tua manin ahi thei tanah kidek teta pen hoihpen lo hiam?
Nuam hilhial in na khangno hun na zat ding pen Pasian hong deihsakna hi. Ngaihsun in, na sianthona leh na minphatna pen kidek zawhlohna tawh na khek ding pen pammaih salo na hiam?
Tua ciang, mite in nang pen a ‘easy’ mahmah danin hong gen kei hen. Pasian lim le mel sun a hong kibawl a, ganhing mawkmawk hilo hi teh. Na sungah ki-ukzawhna leh kidekzawhnate zong om hi cih phawk gige in.
3) Hong it man hilo in, ama nopsak nadingin vatzat in hong zang cih na phawk ciang a lungsim nat mahmah na tawh na kipelh theih nadingin!
4) Sex zatna hangin nungakte pen naupai vat thei dinmun ah ding gige na hih manun : Naupai kidalna ding zatui leh condom I cihte pawl 100% in muanhuai lo uh hi. Sex zatloh phot pen kidalna dingin hoihpen lai phot hi tuciang ah!
5) Pasian in nang adingin hong geelsak na koppih ding lian mah tawh na kiten theih nadingun!
6) Sex thanghuai taka zat man a natna lauhuai tuamtuam na ngah khakloh nadingin : Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD) nam tampi in om a, lauhuai kim mahmah uh hi. AIDS I cihte khawng bang zong tutan in a zatui ding kimukhia nailo cih I theih tek sa hi.
7) Na mailam ding (na future) na suksiat loh nadingin!
8) Na it pen mah tawh na damsungin a nuam thei bang pen in sex na zatkhop theih nadingun!
9 Nang hong deihsakte in khangkhat na nuntak sung kisik om hetlo in nuam takin na zat ding kong deihsak manun!
HAKSA LUA LO DING MAW? BANG CIH DING?
Haksa kha mah in teh, ahizongin hih pen fight taak hi. Pasian kiang panin huhna ngen ila, nangmah mah in zong na lungsim ah khensatna kiptak bawl in. Tua ciangin :
1) Nungak tangval lai a kikep siangtho a hoihna thu 9 ( a tunga te) phawk tawntung in ) .
2) Tv, Internet leh video khawngah sex lam a nga tawh kidawm mahmah in.
3) Guihtheih khamtheih tawh kisukha kei in. B’am cih leh mi in kham a neih ciangin normal nawnlo hi.
4) Lawmngaih na neih leh zong kuama omlohna lam vive ci kei in. Daihna munah ze-etna hat diak hi. Peel in!
5) Zuau thu tawh hong kizolzol thei ding a, akl. neihsa lamsa sum leh pai tawh zong, tua hun ciangin bangci kikep ding cih geel kholhsa in nei in.
2) Tv, Internet leh video khawngah sex lam a nga tawh kidawm mahmah in.
3) Guihtheih khamtheih tawh kisukha kei in. B’am cih leh mi in kham a neih ciangin normal nawnlo hi.
4) Lawmngaih na neih leh zong kuama omlohna lam vive ci kei in. Daihna munah ze-etna hat diak hi. Peel in!
5) Zuau thu tawh hong kizolzol thei ding a, akl. neihsa lamsa sum leh pai tawh zong, tua hun ciangin bangci kikep ding cih geel kholhsa in nei in.
PASALTE IN NUNGAKTE A ZOL ZEL DAN UH A TANGPI:
1) Lumkhawm le hang I ki-itna khang semsem ding hi – Ee maw.. Hong zolna bangin na na luppih ziauziau takpi leh maw… hong pi muh lua nawn khollo ding hi. Zong hong zahtak nawnlo ding hi. B’am cih leh numei ‘cheap & easy’ luate kuaman pi muhin zahtaklo pi uh e… thusim khat ong imkhia pak hi ning.
2) Nong ngaih takpi leh lumkhawm ding hi hang – Hih kammal hangin nungak tampi a siatlawh khin tam hi. Hibangin hong kicih ciangin “Nong it takpi leh I kitenni zan dong ngak ni. Itna taktak in ngakzo(true love waits) ci uh hilo hiam?” ci inla, hong hehsan leh zong phamawh sa ken. Lungkimlo suakin hong khen leh zong phamawh sa ken. Hong it taktak lo a, luppih ding bekin hong deih cihna hi lel hi. Hibang mi adingin na neih manpha pen na sianthona pia phal ding na hiam?
3) Khatvei bek, tutung bek! – Khatvei na piak leh a nihveina in hong zom ngeigei hi. Khatvei bek tawh a lungkim takpi dingin ngaihsun kha ken!
4) I kiphawk tawntung nadingin e…! – Natna lauhuai AIDS khawng akl. nau khawng ong paisak le bel kinawh phawk bilbel mah ding nai ve vua. Ahizongin hi bang a kiphawkna pen a deihhuai pen hiam cih bel ngaihsut huai...
5) Na ut kei leh midang zong ding hing – Halleluiah…Amen! Pheisalawt…Zong sak lel in. Hibang mi, ama angsung bek a theite tawh na nuntak hun sung teng na zatkhop ding pen nang leh nang vangik a kisuan hi lel teh. Paisak lel in..midang zong lel hen! Topa’n a hoih zaw hong pia na ve…Kiteng le uh cin zong lungkim thei ken teh.
6) Mite’n zong hih khin lel e! - Zuau bulomtang hi ei hih thu bel! Zi/pasal neih masiah siangtho taka akikem dinga akiciam leh akikem takpi mi tampi om hi. Tam lua mai!
7) Lungkham kei in. Condom zang ding I vele, bangmah ci kei ni the! – Bangmah ci kei kha mah ni uh teh, tu leh tu in bel. Ahizongin nung ciangin na lungsim nopmawhna leh mawh na kisakna vangikte hong theihpih nawnlo ding a, zong hong thuakpih nawnlo ding hi. Tua manin za-ah-za kidalna hoih pen leh a muantak penin…. sex zat nailoh hi phot hi!
8) Tu panin I kisinna kawmin na zang khawl leng, I kiten khit ciang nuam ding! – Hih thu tawh kisai in bel kithukhual saka na mabuai keei kullo hi. Kiten khit ciang sin nading hun tam lel, siam manloh nading mahmah omlo… lungkham sih in!
MAWH KHIN KHIAL KHA KHIN NA HIH LEH!
Koppih ding zi/pasal nei nailo pi in sex ana zang kha khin na hi thei hi. Kamsiatna hangin akl. theihloh manin zong hi thei… tua manin haksa sapi in ana nungta den zong na hi thei hi. Phamawh kei. Nuntakna thak tu-in na nei thei lai hi. Mawh khin khial khin na hih hangin Pasian in hong it lai veve hi. (Rom 5:8)
Kisik in, na mawhnate pulak in, Topa kiang lam na zuat naak leh amah in hong maisak ding a, hong hencip thangkhaute hong suut sakin, nuntakna thak suahtakna tawh hong pia khawm ding hi. Lai Siangtho in, mi khatpeuh Khris tawh a kipawl ciangin mi lui ngeinate bei in mi thak suak khinta na ci hiven mate… (II Korin 5:17) Tun bel ka siangthona a hi thei tanah kikem ta ning na cih theih ding hong thupi ta hi. Topa’n thupha hong pia ta hen!
BONUS :
PORN (XXX lim hoihlo) et a hoihlohna –
1) I ngaihsutna siangtho takte hong nil khiatsak in, a thanghuai pipi tawh hong laihsak hi.
2) Masturbation hong uang sak hi. ekinn sung khawng ah hong tang sak khual2…
3) Numei/pasal I muhdan hong siasak hi.
4) Mite pen tua lima I muh bangin a huk takpi ding banga ngaihsutna manlo hong nei sak hi.
5) Porn addict na hih leh na nuntakna tampi hong nawngkai sakin lam hong khial sak thei hi.
1) I ngaihsutna siangtho takte hong nil khiatsak in, a thanghuai pipi tawh hong laihsak hi.
2) Masturbation hong uang sak hi. ekinn sung khawng ah hong tang sak khual2…
3) Numei/pasal I muhdan hong siasak hi.
4) Mite pen tua lima I muh bangin a huk takpi ding banga ngaihsutna manlo hong nei sak hi.
5) Porn addict na hih leh na nuntakna tampi hong nawngkai sakin lam hong khial sak thei hi.
6) Pasal in Numei hi le cin Mi na et teh ahilo lam hong musak pahpah thei a, hong huk hong lan sakin, Nisim mawhna tawh na kidim den hi.
Kicing het kei in cin, aizong tu a zah tawh hunsak phot ni. Lungdam!
BEHLAPNA
1. Zi leh Pasal na neih ma in Numei pasal vai ah ahi theizah in siangtho in tua ahih kei leh Zi, Pasal na neih hun ah na lungkim zo ngeiloding hi. Genthna: Aktui pen mi nih in hong bawl, huan leh alimna kibang lo thei a, tuadan mah in Nungak tangval laina ciap kawi2 leh Zi , pasal na neih teh na lungsim khat tawh khamuang thei limsa zoden lo ding na hih manin, ahun omlai in kidawm in.
2. Zi, pasal naneih khit nat leh tuatawh anuamthei pen dingin om in, zi leh pasal kal ah mawhna cih om lo a, ta leh nau neihna ding bek hi lo hi, Khat leh khat taksa deihna kilungkim sakna ding Pasian bawl cih phawk kik in. lungdam.
Ref: Tg Samuel Nas
Ref: Tg Samuel Nas